How to approach & pick up women in Bars,clubs and Any public place- without rejection (Part 3)

Talk Positive, Talk Fun…


Never ever bring up anything negative when you’re first talking to her.

… not about your job, not about your family, life or past relationships. You want to instantly create an impression of a genuinely FUN person in front of her.

On the other hand, what is more important is for you to focus on bringing out the energy, the playfulness, the wackiness & try to flirtingly tease her when you’re talking to her.

Make your conversations lively, passionate and INTERESTING to her.
Your goal is to be someone who APPEALS to her.

And again, in order to appeal to her, you’ve got bring out the ‘fun’ side within you and SHOW it to her.

Women love to be with fun, witty, happy-go-lucky people.

Don’t you?

So, remember to BE that person.
Why God Gave You A Pair Of Ears…

Stop worrying about what to say next and focus your attention on listening. She will naturally give you leads as to what she would like to talk about.

For example:

Me: “How are you doing?”
Her: “Nothing much. Just here de-stressing myself after work…”
Me: “Your job sounds kinda’ scary, better let me know fast so I won’t have to
turn out looking like you now…”
Her: “Hey!”
Me: “What did I say? Naw I’m just fooling around, but I’m still serious about
the turning out like you part…”
Her: “Then I’m not telling…”
Me: “Oh really…”

See how it’s done?

It’s not that hard, right?

You have to be creative, laid back and spontaneous at the same time to pull this off, but generally the one thing you need here is to be able to listen well and then pick up her lead from there…

This again comes with practice, my friend…

The Sweetest Word In The Human Vocabulary…

It’s one of the most powerful techniques in persuasion & sales. Constantly repeat your customers’ name when you’re selling something to them and it’ll immediately ease the initial tension, break down barriers and make it highly personal to them. Your aim in sales is to get the other party to feel comfortable talking and dealing with you.

Once they feel comfortable around you, they will drop their ‘defences’ and will be more open to what you’ll have to say to them.

In approaching women, you want to do the same. The only difference is, instead of selling a product/service to her, you’re now selling YOURSELF to her.

So remember to apply the same concept to your ‘game’.

Many guys overlook this simple technique.

Don’t be one of them!

When you’re talking to a woman for the first time, constantly repeat her name – it’ll be like music to her ears. Say something like “Whoa! What do you have there in your bag –- a fully loaded 5 kg gun?” instead of “Whoa! What do you have there in your bad, Stephanie –- a fully loaded 5 kg gun?”

Which one sounds more personal?
I know, I know.

It might sound pretty dumb, but it really works.

Impress Her Through Actions, Not Words…

I’ve seen this happen time and time again. A guy trying to impress a girl he’s just met by telling her about how much money or about all his ‘remarkable’ achievements he’s done…

That’s dating suicide!

Never talk about how cool, mean, bad, tough or strong you are.

Doing so will have you coming off as bragging and women absolutely HATE that. Actions speak much louder than words. If she thinks that you are full OF yourself, be sure you’ll be leaving the place empty handed.


This free report will:

I’m going to show you:

How to attract beautiful girls

How to talk to a woman easily and properly

How to make women interested in seconds

Transform yourself into a guy women want, even if you are don’t have money or looks

Learn how to use body language to your advantage

Develop ultra confidence around females

Become a fluid conversationalist that women love spending time with

How to make that girl you really want, fall in love with you

How to create electric  chemistry

Get women to talk to you first

How to understand women and what they want

How to flirt with women

how to attract women, how to seduce women, how to get a girl to like you

How to pick up girls online and offline– become the ultimate pickup artist

To Be Continued











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