How to approach & pick up women in Bars,clubs and Any public place- without rejection (Part 1)

How to approach & pick up women in Bars,clubs and Any public place- without rejection (Part 1)


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Foundations Of A Successful Pick-Up…


I have a confession to make.


I lied.


One of the most frequently asked question amongst guys are: How do I without successfully approach, talk to a woman & successfully ‘pick her up’ ever getting rejected?


Unfortunately, I don’t have the answer for you.


Because to be honest with you, I have not seen ANY one guy who can simply walk up to any woman and successfully initiate the ‘pick up’ without ever getting rejected at all.


He’d have to be Superman to be able to do that.


I’d love to tell you I have a top-secret technique you can use to NEVER get NOT happen.  rejected, but unfortunately in the REAL world, that does


The reality is, there will ALWAYS be SOME point of rejection whenever you’re out approaching women.


REACT to those rejections

What is more important then is how you’re able to when they do happen that matters most.


That being said though, I have outlined a checklist of techniques you can use in order to INCREASE your success rates when you’re approaching women here.


Here goes…


You Have Nothing To Lose…


This is the one key mindset you MUST have if you want to be a successful PUA (Pick Up Artist). I’ve seen it with my own eyes – A good friend of mine who’s an expert at approaching and picking up women only remembers one thing whenever he does an ‘approach’.


“Just do it!”

That’s the only thing in his mind.


The word “rejection” is non-existent in his vocabulary. He does not care! He just approaches and approaches and approaches without the slightest thought of the faggoty “what if she rejects me” mentality.


So quit being scared of rejection and just get out there and DO it. The trick is to not think about it AT ALL, if you start thinking…


“Should I talk to her or not?”


“What should I say?”


eventually talk yourself out of it.

… then you will


Let me say this again; start thinking too much and you WILL eventually talk yourself out of it.


In fact, the infamous “3 second rule” states that the moment you spot a woman you’d like to know, you must approach her immediately.


If you hesitate any longer than 3 seconds, you’re most likely to think of all sorts of excuses, negative thoughts and talk yourself out of it and you can basically kiss her goodbye.


Think about it this way, if you talk to her, you might have a 50/50 chance of success & getting rejected, but if you  don’t talk to her, you have absolutely ZERO chance of success.


If you don’t initiate the conversation, it WILL most likely never take place! Because there is NO WAY in hell she’ll come to you.


Now, that’s reality for you, my friend…

What If She Rejects You… 


When that happens  (and it will happen initially when you’re first starting out), just smile and walk away.


Who cares what she thinks, you probably won’t see her again anyway!


Besides, it’s HER loss, she just missed out on a fun time for free with a great guy.


In fact, go out  looking to get rejected, because once you become COMFORTABLE with women saying no, your fear of rejection will naturally be gone. (Don’t believe me, TRY it then! You’ll see it with your own eyes!)


Remember that the guy who gets rejected the most is the guy who leaves with the most numbers!

(to be continued)


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